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Traveling With a Baby

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Planning a Stress-Free TripWith Your Baby

Traveling is fun, but traveling with a baby requires attention to many more details than a trip with only adults. Let’s think through everything—from preparations before the trip, to the day of departure, and what to keep in mind during the journey.

Some parents may wonder, “At what age is it okay to travel with a baby?”
There is no strict rule, but generally speaking, traveling is usually comfortable when a baby is around 5 to 8 months old. A basic guideline is that the baby can hold up their head, but since every baby develops differently, it’s important to plan according to your baby’s physical condition and create a schedule that doesn’t push them too hard.


Preparations Before the Trip

Planning the Schedule
When planning your itinerary, put your baby’s comfort first. Create a schedule that matches your baby’s usual routine, including feeding times and naps, so as not to place unnecessary strain on them. Be sure to allow plenty of extra time, as unexpected situations—such as diaper changes, feeding, or clothes getting dirty—are bound to happen.
That said, it is a trip, after all. Ideally, both mom and dad should also be able to relax and refresh themselves, enjoying a stress-free journey that helps relieve everyday fatigue.

Choosing a Hotel
First, decide where you will stay.
Accommodations that welcome families with babies are ideal. Their staff are usually experienced and considerate, allowing you to enjoy a baby-first environment.
It’s also a good idea to confirm the sleeping arrangements in advance—whether a crib or baby futon is provided, for example.
When it’s time for bed, try to follow the same bedtime routine you use at home. Repeating the familiar steps helps your baby understand that it’s time to sleep, providing a sense of comfort and security.
Because parents tend to be more tired than usual during trips, be careful not to fall asleep while co-sleeping with your baby.
While you may want to see and do everything during your trip, visiting too many sightseeing spots will only exhaust your baby. A relaxed stay is best. Instead of trying to do too much, choose one location where you can enjoy several activities, and keep travel time to a minimum. Also, plan ahead in case of bad weather.


Transportation
Possible means of transportation include cars, airplanes, and trains, but when traveling with a baby, a car is usually the best option. For a baby’s first trip, traveling by car is often the most comfortable choice.

1. Traveling by Car
Traveling by car has several advantages: even if your baby becomes fussy, you won’t disturb others, and it’s easier to manage increased luggage. However, traffic jams are always a possibility, so be sure to research feeding spots, diaper-changing facilities, rest areas, and places to take breaks in advance.
With a proper baby car seat, even babies as young as 1 to 3 months old can travel by car. That said, long-distance driving can still be a burden on a baby, so monitor their condition very carefully.

〈 Points to Keep in Mind When Traveling by Car 〉
Traveling with a baby differs from normal driving in several ways:

  • Take frequent breaks
    Babies have limited stamina and weaker immune systems, so regular breaks are essential.
    On long drives, aim to stop at least once every hour. If using highways, check rest area locations beforehand to avoid going too long without a break.
  • Drive more carefully than usual
    To minimize strain from shaking, sudden movements, or abrupt braking, maintain a longer following distance and drive as smoothly as possible.
  • Prioritize your baby’s health
    Heat and direct sunlight inside the car can be very stressful for babies.
    Use sunshades and carefully adjust the air conditioning to keep your baby comfortable.
  • Prepare for traffic jams
    Have a plan for when your baby becomes upset during traffic. Bring familiar toys or items your baby normally uses at home.
  • Never leave your baby alone in the car
    Leaving a baby alone in a vehicle can lead to serious dangers such as heatstroke. Even for a short time, this should never be done. Be sure not to leave your baby in the car—even for “just one minute.” It’s extremely dangerous.

2. Traveling by Airplane
In some cases, flying is unavoidable.
The biggest advantage of air travel is the reduced travel time. When flying with a baby, you may also be able to use priority boarding and request a baby bassinet.
Many babies cry during takeoff and landing, so if possible, try to adjust your schedule so your baby can sleep during those times.

3. Traveling by Train
Unlike driving, adults don’t need to operate the vehicle, making travel less tiring, and there’s no risk of traffic jams. However, parents may feel concerned about disturbing others if the baby cries, and carrying large amounts of luggage can be challenging. Reserving seats in advance is essential—ideally at the front or back rows, or seats on the end.

Since you’ll likely be using a stroller, elevators are necessary. Be sure to check station layouts in advance.


Meals During the Trip
Finding restaurants in an unfamiliar area can be difficult. Look for places that offer baby-friendly menus or services and make reservations ahead of time whenever possible.

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Tips forMaking Your Trip Home Enjoyable

Many families travel home during the year-end and New Year holidays to let grandparents see their grandchildren. Depending on how close you are with them, a long stay may be tiring for mom. In some cases, limiting the visit to two nights and staying at a nearby hot spring resort or hotel can be a good alternative.

Winter holidays also coincide with the peak season for illnesses such as the flu. If your baby seems unwell or different from usual on the day of departure, it’s important to be willing to cancel your plans. Don’t hesitate—always put your baby first.

Traveling with a baby who has limited stamina and a developing immune system requires thorough preparation. Creating a checklist for packing in advance can help things go smoothly.
Above all, don’t forget to prepare for emergencies.

By planning a schedule with plenty of time to spare, parents can stay relaxed and enjoy a pleasant, unhurried trip.

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Midwife Yoko Nambu

After graduating from Tokyo Medical and Dental University School of Nursing and obtaining a national nursing license, and graduating from the Japanese Red Cross School of Midwifery and obtaining a national midwifery license, she worked as a midwife in the obstetrics and gynecology ward of Tokyo Medical and Dental University Hospital, attending over 300 births and picking up babies. After that, she established "Toraube Inc.", a consultation office mainly for women's body. As a woman's ally, she provides consultation for problems at all ages. She believes that women should understand their own body as their own. She believes that this will lead to the solution of all problems and deals with them on a daily basis.
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